“You know, when pots that are together are moved, friction is inevitable. Do not take it seriously. Misunderstandings are bound to occur sometimes and they are straightened out eventually. It takes two hands to clap. Let him say whatever he wishes. Just endure it all quietly. That will prevent misunderstandings. You will have to be a little humble. You will have to sacrifice a little. You have dedicated your body, mind and soul to the Master’s work. You have renounced everything for his sake. You will have to do this much also for his work. You should practice forbearance, you should sacrifice-for his work. The Lord will bless you abundantly…you have come here renouncing everything for his sake. There is nothing that he will withhold from you. How will his work go on if you all do not live at peace in one place? Temporary misunderstandings are inevitable when several work together. They aren’t something to be blamed for.; it is quite natural. Such misunderstandings come and go; they cannot touch your inner Self, because the main objective of your life is the realization of God. Such petty matters as attachment and aversion cannot deeply affect you. This is what we feel”
(p.80-1, For Seekers of God, Swami Shivananda’s instruction to a Sadhu)