The Master disliked a happy-go-lucky attitude. He used to say of Swamiji: “See what a heroic temperament he has! As soon as he sets his mind on something, he applies himself heart and soul to it.” Circumstances may or may not be favourable, but who cares? We must strain every nerve to accomplish what we set out to do. If one is determined to do it at any cost, one finds that great obstacles that appear to be overpowering ultimately turn out to be a great help. But one must struggle sincerely.
We ourselves must apply ourselves. Others cannot do this for us. The Master said again and again: “You must try a little. Only then will the guru reveal the Truth.” Let me tell you from our experience that if anyone advances towards God a single step, God advances towards him ten steps. This is our personal experience. If we do not exert ourselves, no one can do anything for us. (Source: Sri Ramakrishna as We Saw Him)